If you cut the leaves the tree looks taller…


Does groin grooming / manscaping make men’s privates look bigger ?

When I initially  began working on this blog and didn’t really know what I was doing  I accidentally sent my entire friends list on Facebook my introductory post.  I was a bit mortified because I didn’t really want everyone, friends, family and all the random people I’ve collected to know what I was researching.  I wasn’t ready.  Anyway, I got a message back pretty much instantly from a male (family member) saying “I shave me balls, does that help with your research”.    I was surprised to hear this, and a little embarrassed  (me the one asking everyone to share their pubic hair anxieties and tales). I hadn’t really thought at that stage about pubic hair grooming and removal from a male perspective.  But as it turns it is quite common for guys to shave their nethers.  Manscaping, a term that became popularised in the show TV show ‘Queer Eye For The Straight Guy’  is on the up.

I decided to do a mini survey.  I asked some guys at the gym (clearly I now have no shame).  One happily shared his pubic hair stories and confessed that he had been shaving his entire body (including his pubes) since he was 16.  His main motivation was because he found body hair disgusting.  Another said that his girlfriend had always had a shaven haven and if she was doing it why shouldn’t he.  I have had repeated conversations now with  guys about their pubic grooming and most are happy to bare all in more than one sense.   Most of the guys I talked to were under 30 (with one or two exceptions) and as far as I know all are heterosexual. They were all happy to engage in conversations without embarrassment about their grooming practices which I think that is really positive thing.

As I’ve mentioned in earlier posts, body hair removal and/or alteration has a long history for women, in fact women’s hair removal practices have been theorised as almost “compulsory” in contemporary society with a mundane “hairless norm”rendering almost any visible body hair unacceptable for many woman.   Until recently, hair removal might have appeared to be a clearly gendered practice, but it has been suggested that  a recent neutralization of differences in hair practices between the genders, suggests that the gender gap in body hair removal is narrower than you might think.  For Western men, body hair can be a significant body concern and body hair removal or alteration appears to be popular and potentially even normative according to emerging literature.   The reasons men provide for hair removal to some extent match those for women: attractiveness, hygiene, sensation, and sexual improvement; to emphasize body muscularity; and to increase perception of  penis size.  It appears that hairlessness, or reduced hairiness has been incorporated as an acceptable, even desirable form of  neo masculinity. The scope for male body hair remains broader than it is for women, with less social and psychological castigation, except perhaps for back hair.  Women still get a harder deal as hairy feminine bodies are much more prone to ridicule and shame.  A recent study on body hair practices in New Zealand found that 11% of participants endorsed the acceptability of body hair on women, while 81% endorsed body hair for men.  This indicates that body hair removal for women is more compulsory than men’s hair removal.

Advertisers  and the market that sells us hair removal products perpetuates the idea of hair free skin as a contemporary ideal.   It is a multi-billion pound/ dollar industry and arguably is in part responsible for our growing obsession with smooth, sleek, hairless bods.

I plan to take a long hard look at the effects of continual  bombardment by media texts and advertisements that sell us hairless ideals.

Here are two ads that promote shaving for men and women –  what came first the shaver or the shaved ?


More to follow, I am in the library today about to start my dissertation. All thoughts on male pubic hair removal  and / or the impact of advertising greatly appreciated.


4 thoughts on “If you cut the leaves the tree looks taller…

  1. I too have been pruning the leaves for many years now,can’t remember when i started,being a bloke i think it was probably after some prompting by a lady friend,it definately looks and feels better,especially in summer!

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  2. I think it’s a lot to do with Internet porn, as for girls, and similarly seems to be most common amongst younger men who also feel obliged to have 6 packs, waxing their chests and so I guess it’s a continuum from there. .. Downwards!

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    • Hey Leila,
      Me again, funnily enough, today I started doing my ‘influence of pornography on pubic hair practices’ for my dissertation. Can you believe that to date (as far as I can see), there is no academic research directly linking porn (which clearly promotes a hairless vulva) to female or male pubic hair removal. I was pretty shocked, actually ‘Porn Studies’ is a new disciple, with the first collection of work published in 2014. I’ll post my more accurate findings when I’ve finished looking at porn…. well you know what I mean !

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